Showing posts with label bully. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bully. Show all posts

Sunday, May 3, 2020

Pup-date May 3





Hi all.     Welcome back & Happy May.   


Athena & Volos
While nothing much is happening on the human front, being sheltered at home and all, the dogs have been giving much too much to talk about.

Athena's had a good week. She went to play care on the other day.  She had a blast. She's been very active and aware. She's gone downstairs to play with the pups a few times.  She's had a pretty exciting week.   

She & Volos just chill out when the other 2 are away at play care .
Peryn & Lada

Lada & Peryn are their typical selves. Lada is still clingy to Momma. Still playing with Peryn or Volos. She still loves on Athena.  She's her sweet hyper self. 

Peryn... he's a little something else.   He constantly tries to bully/annoy Volos. Constant growling or fighting goes on between the two of them.  

When not trying to antagonize Volos, he's still obsessed with going downstairs and playing with his herding ball.  
He is pretty generous the few times Volos came downstairs and attempted to play with the herding ball himself.   Peryn stood back and let him.    


Volos & Peryn
Volos.     This dude.   He's something else. A mischievous, playful, funny big dude.     He loves to steal.    Socks, tissues, slippers, toys, food... if it's at his level to steal, he'll take it.   We caught him trying to steal a open package of cookies this weekend.    

Other new things- he sleeps in our room all the time now.   Either at the foot of the bed or next to me.    It makes me happy that he is secure enough to do that now. 
He also comes downstairs regularly when the dogs play and has even tried to play with the ball as well.   When he doesn't come down, you can hear him upstairs playing with his Wobble Wag Giggle ball. 

When Peryn & Lada head downstairs to play on their own, he runs with them to the top of the stairs, makes sure they run down and then proceeds to steal whatever they were playing with or chewing on.

He's actually joined in on the game of fetch when Daddy throws a ball from the living room down the stairs, he's gone down on his own to get it.      He's a real playful dude.    

People who see him in person often ask if he's a puppy. He's small for his breed (around 70#).   I'm glad he's small. Dude doesn't know his size and knocks me off my feet often.
He thinks he's Lada's size and he's clearly not.     He often is found at my feet or against my legs--especially if we're outside on leash.   


We finally got the back stairs in (we've been trying to get this done since we moved in).  Getting the dogs used to using the back door vs the front is a work in progress. They still run to the front, but when I correct them, they fly to the back door.   

Volos isn't a fan.  I don't know if it's the width or the curtains "blocking his view", but he's snuck to the front once.      He'll get it sooner or later.   

So yeah, that's our Pupdate.    Volos is doing very well. Athena is hanging in there and the other 2 are as crazy as they always are.      Until next time.




 






Monday, March 30, 2020

Bone, Hugs & Harmony

Interesting time with the dogs this week.    With all the changes going on , their day care days have been switched, Mommy is working from home, & Volos is truly starting to gel with the family.
Volos spends more time out with us than hiding away.    We've had him out in the living room with us as we watched TV after dinner (and this weekend).   He's coming into the bedroom all of the time.  In fact, he slept in our closet the other night.   Now, I don't know if that is something he's going to do all the time or if it had something to do with the loud thunder that was happening.  Either way--progress.

He's even hanging out at our feet while at the dinner table. While this isn't all the time, I'd say it's more often than not.   It's hard to believe that just a month and a half ago this dog was hiding in the corner of Rich's office if not the crate.     


He adores both of us and I couldn't be happier.  He is very 
confident in his role now and is barking more and more each day.   
Peryn trying to get Daddy's attention


His relationships with his siblings is a bit--there are drastic distances.  Athena- with whom he is home most often with, 
he has zero interaction with   She's in one of her beds all the time since she is unable to move or get up.   When she's in her cart, she is usually either barking at her younger siblings as they play or she's barking at the people walking by on the trail.  She and Volos don't bark or growl at one another. I guess they live in mutual respect with one another. 

He and Lada have a decent relationship.  She and he have 
Hey Mom
licked each other and almost started playing one day.  They 
acknowledge each other and show some affection.  They both 
often are attempting to get my attention at the same time, so they are often side by side.   I would say they are definitely 
fond of one another.     Hopefully that will grow as time goes on.

Peryn....  Peryn. Peryn. Peryn.  We have often said that Peryn is the best dog we've had. He listens, watches out for his pack, doesn't beg for food, and gets along well with the pack.     
Cute but annoying

Lately though.  .... I don't know if it's because Duchess is gone and he's mourning her or trying to take over her role as "Leader".  He and Duchess were pals. He ADORED her.  I don't know if it's because he feels threatened by Volos.  I don't know what it is but lately he's become an aggressive little shit. 

One of the things he has been doing for a long time is try to reign in Lada.  Lada--for those who don't know--is VERY HYPER.  She's very reactive and the BIGGEST DANG DRAMA QUEEN you've ever met.    

Peryn often shuts her down or at least tries to.  When we let the dogs out to potty, we use the front door as we have no steps off the back door.  When they're let out, they run to the back.  We have a metro-parks trail right on the other side of the back fencing.    Duchess, Athena & Lada tend to bark at those walking by. If Peryn happened to see someone, he would "cut them off" from running and barking at people.

When Lada would hear something and go to react, he would growl and snap at her to get her to stop from running off.  He does this often when they hear "Daddy" open the garage.  

Lately though, he does it and keeps doing it.   To make matters worse the drama queen sounds like she's being murdered.  SO the two of them cause quite a ruckus.  Peryn shutting her down and then keeps snapping at her for a bit.   Lada will fight back and then pull the "AHHHHHHH MOMMMY HE'S KILLING ME" thing.   
Sitting at the table w/us -playing cards

So that's ramped up the past month or so.     Then he snapped at Athena.  A T H E N A.      Now mind you, Athena will snap at you if you come near her when she is eating.   That is one thing she's never gotten over from her mill days.  She guards her food/bones/snacks.     

Volos.   When we first got Volos and he started to slowly open up , he would (still does) runs to us once he's done outside.  Peryn often tried to engage him to play.   Volos wasn't there yet and would ignore him.   

Well, now that Volos is more secure in his role within the house, he is around more. Peryn has taken to closely following him when he's up and about and it becomes a stand off.    Growling and snapping.  They've gotten into one tussle. 


Volos isn't letting him bully him around. He growls right back and will snap right back.   I'm proud of him because he's secure enough to know he can do that.   
HOWEVER the harmony in this home has been off for the past two weeks.     We allow for some of it because they need to work out whatever it is, but when I see Peryn trying to start something, I shut him down.    But that little shit follows him and HOVERS.  

If Volos wants to eat/drink, Peryn is right there. IF Volos wants to come in to my office and he's not already there, Peryn hovers over him.

He's just been a big annoying shit lately.  We're hoping it only goes on for a little longer, but if it keeps up-- need to figure out something.  



Lada went with Momma to visit "Gwamma".  She got to meet 
her cousin Ricky.  They didn't hate each other and they didn't 
Cousin RIcky & Lada
really love each other. They spent most of the time taking back a piece of roll-hide that was there.      It was pretty entertaining.   Ignoring each other is as preferable as them getting along.   We don't have to worry about them killing each other, so yay.

As usual Lada was the perfect passenger.  The only thing that worries Momma here is that 
Ricky with the roll-hide
she does not sleep. She will not relax. She will lay in the front staring at me from her various positions. If she lays down in the back seat and I glance at her, her eyes are focused on me.    She has to keep me in her sight at all times.  She's like this every time we drive there and home.    
We stop enough to let her stretch her legs and get  a chance to go to the bathroom- she usually doesn't.   Her one thing, that we kind of have always done and she now continues it, is while at a stop she does walk around a bit.   Walks, stops looks up at me and jumps into my arms.   She wants Momma to hold her like a little toddler.

It was a short trip as we knew there would be a "Stay At Home" order soon and we wanted to get home before it was issued--which we did.

They are LOVING the fact that Mommy is home every dang day.    Mommy not so much.

VOLOS UPDATE as of 16:46EST on 3.30.2020. Today he went in for his PRP.    He received them in both of his knees.  We're trying this route first hoping to repair some of the damage.    We're trying to avoid having surgery if we can.   Fingers crossed that this works.


Trying to move herself over
Athena--It's official. She's 100% down.  If we place her just right, she can hold herself up--but don't move her or she'll fall down.    Her front legs are weak and she cannot lift herself up in the front. 

Her legs splay wide in the front and she can't hold herself up too long in the cart.   We sent her to playcare on Friday and she was out the rest of the night and next day.     

Because she lies on her chest and can't lift herself up, she sounds wheezy when she barks.   It's not looking well. I'm thinking a few weeks.   Once she no longer runs around in the basement with the cattle dogs, that's it.    That's what she lives for and if she can't do that-- that's our sign.

How she lays